One message has been forged into your brain from the time you were 10: first impressions matter. Think about what you do when you browse through profiles. You're looking for something to grab your attention, something to snap you out of the monotony of boring person after boring person. And photographs are the gatekeepers of your profile. Even the most brilliant, heartfelt and evocative profile won't get read if the photographs don't sell it.
What are you willing to do to be the person who stands out?
If your perfect partner rejects your
carefully crafted advance because you look like a dork,
then the $39.95 a month you're spending for that dating
site, and your 30 hours a week online doing the dance,
are all for nought. Face it: your online profile is marketing.
Do the pictures in your profile show the product to its best
How empty is thy inbox? Got that dry,
itchy, no mail feeling? Profiles with pictures get 15x
the response of profiles without. But if your pictures
aren't doing the marketing job they should, then the response
you're getting isn't from the, shall we say, customer base
you're trying to reach. You need good pictures. Yet so
many people have icky pictures online. What's going on?
Travel snapshots are fine...for mom.
Bar snaps are great...for drunk friends.
Pictures of your cat are cute...to you.
Pictures with half your ex...don't fool anyone.
Because it's convenient, that's why.
Because getting good pictures of yourself is harder than
it looks. And because people confuse the feelings they
have about the circumstance in which the picture was taken
with the quality of the picture. But when potential paramours
peruse your pictures, they don't see what you feel. They
see a tourist, a bar patron, a wedding guest. Is that the
best you can do?
Everybody deserves to look good. Getting
there doesn't have to hurt. Now there is a professional,
affordable, guaranteed way to look better in your profile.
If you've ever gone to a spa, hired
a personal trainer, or worked with a paid coach, you know
what professionals bring to the party. These services help
you live up to your potential. Photography can be like
When you see great pictures of you,
your whole outlook changes. The optimistic, creative, interesting
and unique person inside starts to show on the outside.
And the world has a chance to see the you that your friends
can't believe is still single.
The next time your profile gets its 6
seconds of fame, will it deliver?